DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: ok help me again
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: ok?
Me: okay
Me: go
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: remember that guy I told you I liked a LOT but he didn’t treat me so good?
Me: yes
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: well he stood me up last night and still hasn’t called, but I don’t want to call him and rag on him because I don’t want to lose him
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: I know that’s wrong but what do I do now?
Me: well, what do you want to happen with this boy?
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: I don't know, all I know is that he knocks my socks off
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: and I think it might just be the chase
Me: have you had sex with him?
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: yes and it was GREAT
Me: tell me details about how it was
Me: was he tender?
Me: or rough?
Me: did he give you oral
Me: or just penis-vagina huff-puff done?
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: no oral but not huff puff either
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: and he was tender a few times and rough others but it was mutual at all times
Me: okay
Me: tell me how this date got set up
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: he called me and told me he wouldn’t be down this weekend to the shore we see each other every weekend, he has a boat he comes to that he sleeps on for the weekend
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: so he said he would come down Thursday night and we could see each other then but he would call me on the way down and let me know what time but it would be late
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: and then he never called and still hasn’t
Me: that's not a date
Me: that's a target of opportunity
Me: he was fucking someone else and she didn't let him out of bed in time
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: I thought that too
Me: why fuck girl 2 if girl 1 fucked you?
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: but don’t you think he should have called?
Me: a date is when the BOY calls the GIRL and asks her out for a specific place, at a specific time, and he waits for her answer, and if it is no, he doesn't come
Me: it is yes, he shows up or doesn't
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: LOL
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: I know that but we always do it this way
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: should I call him and ask or not call at all
Me: but that's why it isn't a date, it's a casual hookup between acquaintances
Me: the calling or not calling thing would not make any difference
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: the other part is that we always see each other on Saturday nights
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: never Friday and he is down here on Friday and always goes to the same place but I can never go there
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: now you really think I am stupid
Me: I think this is working out for you exactly the way you want it to work out for you
Me: that's why I asked you what your goal was
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: but I want him to want me silly
Me: what do you want out of him, what do you want out of life?
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: and he is so fucking hard to get
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: its driving me crazy
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: but I do know that if he was all over me that I would not like him as much
Me: you were already in downtown crazy before this started
Me: what do you want out of life?
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: I don't know
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: I say I want to be happy but I don’t know what happy is
Me: that is why you are experiencing difficulty
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: well what do you want out of life?
Me: I want to be effective in business, effective in my friends' lives, effective in my children's lives and effective in romance
Me: I think the order is kids, business, romance, friends
Me: depending on various emergencies of course
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: well that’s what we all want
Me: and by "effective" I mean I want to accomplish my goals
Me: and that's why this goes to goals
Me: My goal for romance is that I want a steady girlfriend with a perfect body and gorgeous face who fucks like a rabbit and is addicted to me and whom I love
Me: and I got that done.
Me: so, do you see that you need to know what your goal is before you can aim at it?
Me: what...
Me: ...is...
Me: ...your...
Me: ...goal...
Me: ?
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: I want a man that treats me like gold
Me: okay
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: but I can't find anyone
DESTRUCTIVE GIRL: gotta go
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