THE WANDERING HUBBY

WANDERING HUBBY

 

Dear PBAB,

 

 

Could you trust him?  My husband works in an office for a large company. We just about divorced one time because he had an affair with a 21 year old girl at work. He is 45. I wanted to make our marriage work, and he said he will never do it again and has learned his lesson. The office that he works in is small (2 people), and they are getting ready to hire "another" person (the other guy that works in there is leaving), and they are going to hire a woman. They usually hire college age girls too. My question is...Would you feel insecure about a good looking college girl being in the office, sitting side by side with your husband? He is always saying...I wish they would hire a good looking babe! Don’t tell me how insecure I am please.

 

Waiting by the Phone

 

 

 

Dear Waiting,

This is what happens when you try to "save" a marriage that was obviously over. You have a lifetime of this ahead of you. This isn't a relationship, it's an investigation. If it makes you happy playing Scotland Yard, have fun. It'll never be different until Hubby is too old to get hard. Even then he'll be flirting, just keeping his dipstick to himself. I suggest you get a life, get a separation, get a divorce, build your life, date and find a real relationship.

 

You see, if you ever ask the question, "could you trust him?" the relationship is over.

 

Sorry kid, but you should have dumped this guy the first time he went off the reservation.

 

PBAB