THE YOUNGER MAN, SPURNED FOR THE BABY-DADDY
Dear PBAB,
What am I to do? I met this 44 year old woman. She’s 10 years older than me. We have been dating for a year and I asked her to marry me and she said yes. We have been engaged for 2 years. I have been repairing her house since Katrina. we ran out of money to finish it . I lost my job in June of 2007 but got another one ASAP. I don’t make a lot of money but I kept this job for 9 months now. she had been looking for her ex husband to pay child support . she found him and they met up to let her 15 year old see his father. so the next week came and they spent the weekend in ms. which pissed me off. she came back and told me I that it took her ex to make her see I don’t do any thing for her. I cleaned house and done other things around the house but got no appreciation for it. last week we had a fight b/c she told me that she was going to get her ex from the hospital. but that was not true. she bailed him out of jail. I got mad and left Easter day. I love this woman a lot. she is so mad at me she wont even talk! Help me!
Big Depression in the Big Easy
Dear Big,
Her judgment is clouded by the fantasy of family togetherness. Before she got confused by the baby-daddy guy, her mental confusion was evident in her taking up with a man ten years her junior. Women do this if they are playing, just having a good time. They don't do it for a serious relationship. Sure, one time in 100,000 it goes on to be a committed relationship but the other 99,999 times it is just a woman having fun.
Her statements to you do not pass the test of truth because she is just saying whatever she can to try to make you leave her. Women do this, they don't come out and dump you, they torture you so you dump them, then they can act the victim, get sympathy from their friends, eat ice cream and flirt with that guy they've been secretly getting moist to all the time you were together.
Face it, my man, you were a bill-payer and a vagina-servicer, a play-toy. She has this fantasy of having "the real thing" with Baby Daddy Boy. It won't happen, but that's her problem.
You need to distance yourself from this woman. Best way to get your mind off a loved female is another female. Three words, bro: Match dot com.
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