THE CASE OF THE INFANTILE AND SELFISH HUSBAND
Dear PBAB,
Should I be upset? Not sure how to feel at this point? Back in December my husband and I talked about taking our 4 and 6 year old girls to Florida over Spring Break. This week. Well as soon as February came around he told me that it would cost less if he was to go alone with a few guys, one being a Disneyland cast memeber we know well. So 4 guys left last night on a Red Eye flight. The Disney CM will sign the other 3 in to all the parks, so they wont be buying tickets, but they are gone for 9 days. I want him to have a good time, but at the same time I feel that my girls should have been able to enjoy it to. I also feel left out as I am the sole bread winner and work 3 jobs to support him and my girls. I have never been on a "girls" vacation not even a girls weekend. I should be happy and hope that he has a good time and I am trying, but I know if I want to do something like that... he wont let it happen. I am so confused. We have been together for 11 years and have never gone on a vacation like this with out each other.
Need help in Napa
Dear Abandoned Wife in Napa,
The only thing worse would be if he said, you don't mind if I cheat on you while I'm gone, right?
You work three jobs, and he doesn't work, and he goes to Disney without the kids?
Okay, I'm going to tell you what my second divorce lawyer told me. She tapped my forehead and said, "this is one hundred percent your fault. You found this idiot, dated her, singled her out from all others, forsook all others for her, married her in front of the world, and now you have the gall to complain about what a horrible person she is! I got news for you, pal! She was always a horrible person! You were just thinking with the wrong head!"
I suppose the female version is that you must have been having baby fever or you ignored reality because the truth would have been too painful.
Anyhow, I hope you wake up soon. The world needs good women like you, but it needs for good women like you to have loving husbands who take care of them and the kids.
PBAB
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