Dear Playboy Author Boy,
I am engaged to a sweet, dependable, trustworthy guy. The problem is, he is rather lacking in intelligence, creativity and depth. I have been with a man who suited me intellectually, who could pour out his soul in letters worthy of publication. He was near genius, and I can't help but wonder if I'll ever be complete without that level of communication (I wasn't physically attracted to him as much as my fiance, and he didn't want a family). I guess my question is: which is more important, a deep connection or practicality? Should I be able to satisfy my hunger for poetic exchanges on my own (through writing, etc), or should I expect it from my lover?
Hungering for a Poet in Cleveland
Dear Poet Luster,
You should find what you need in a romantic partner all under one roof. It is possible. Guys as you described, the creative types, are plentiful. Find one who turns you on physically and who is enchanted by you. Match dot com is a great way to find this. It won't happen overnight and you will learn a lot on the journey, but to stay with someone who obviously doesn't meet your needs is simply stupid.
PBAB
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