TIME FOR DIVORCE?

How do I know if it's time for Divorce?  We've been together for six years. Married for 1 year. I think my emotions took the train out years ago. I think maybe I stayed with him because it was comfortable and I wanted to be needed and loved. We're currently separated. I'm so happy with out him! But... He doesn't hit me. He isn't mean to me. In fact other than the fact that he ignores me he treats me very good.
I think he's a great guy. He's really nice and there are a lot of jerks out there. I'm 27 and scared to start over. I think i might be staying with him because he's nice and I SHOULD love him. I'm staying because I'm scared.  So my question to others who have been here. How do I know it's time to end it? We don't have kids. Am I jusy wasting both our times? We have talked and he didn't even realize there was a problem and that I was unhappy and he still loves me. How do you know it's time to end it? Personal note we are seeing a marriage counselor.

 

Okay, pay attention:

1. There's no spark. No spark means no relationship.

2. You admit to staying together out of comfort, out of fear to go back to the dating scene and out of guilt. That means no relationship.

3. You're going to a marriage counselor. Marriage counselors are unethical charlatans who just try to smoosh together two incompatible people.

4. You're 27. You have your whole life in front of you. My dear girlfriend didn't move on from this same situation until three kids later at age 49. If she can get a great relationship after all that, you can at age 27 with no kids.

5. No kids. Get out now. Kids make divorce miserable. With no kids, divorce is little more than splitting the dishes. Get on with it.

6. Three words. Match dot com. Get out there.

Good luck.