Dear Author Boy,
Have you ever confessed to an affair...ended it to work on your marriage and then regretted it because your spouse made your marriage even more miserable than it was before the affair?
Secret Chick
Dear Secret Squirrel Chick,
Yes. That happened to me.
But I dodged a bullet. I got divorced but before I could get back with the affair woman, a new girl arrived in my life and grabbed me (thank God).
Ten years later, after the second wife and I split, I went to go see the affair partner. She was in bad shape and I would never have even bought her a drink if I saw her out one night.
I'm not just talking about looks. People, understand, affair partners are chosen to fill the one or two voids that the spouse has caused (example, your spouse no longer has sex with you, so the affair partner will likely have the same void from her spouse and she'll be interested in sex). The thing is, when you're divorced and free to choose whomever you want, you find out that an affair partner is a cartoon of what you want and need, not the real thing. When you're free to choose a person to fit your needs, you look for and find the one who fills all your requirements.
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