I THINK I BLEW IT!

I THINK "I BLEW IT" -- PLEASE HELP!

 

Dear Playboy Author Boy,

 

I lied to my husband.  I have been with him for 3 years. I have never lied to him before but before we got married I had told him I have never given oral sex before, but the problem is I HAVE given it to someone else and now he still thinks he is the first guy that has recieved oral from me. Should I tell him the truth now or just keep it to myself. I am 100% honest with him now. I feel guilty for lying, It only pops in my mind once in awhile, i dont want to feel bad anymore.

 

Please help,

Little Oral Annie

 

Dear Annie,

 

 

 

Your past is your past. He has no right to it and no access other than you. I found out from my brother in law two awful secrets my wife had from things that happened before she met me. I was mad at him for spilling those beans (he was not her friend) and I felt sorry for her -- here she had tried to start fresh and her own brother tried to pollute my mind. I never told her he said that and I never let on, either. Let the past be buried. It is the present that counts. And if your husband is a real man, he wouldn't hold this against you, but he'd just as soon continue to believe your lips were virginal, so leave it alone. In fact,if you do tell him, he will wonder why it is on your mind. Are you thinking about giving it to some other guy?

So forgive yourself and move on.