Honey...please save the following in a word file and attach it to all correspondence to females...even former females...Thank-you. (Just trying to do my job). Oh...send to Mary, Sue, Estelle, Melissa...see if they agree or have their own comments to add.
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This is a warning to all those females who are in direct communication with the subject below...please be advised that you will do and say things for him that you would not ordinarily for any other male...and once you have gone to the limit of your boundaries you will be set aside.
Every Michael T. DiMercurio romantic relationship has:
Beginning...so in love, so excited, everything new and fresh...and he'll play to your weakness...whatever lures you...wounded bird, bad boy, sexually insecure, overtly sexual...whatever it is he will figure it out long before you have any idea what he's up to.
Middle....in love, addicted, but afraid that she'll want deeper commitment, still wants the sex and emotional intimacy but sniffin for eventual replacement, commitment not in the cards.
Later Middle....sex may or may not be winding down, though in order to keep the sex, commitment looms large...there are ALWAYS several new females in varying stages of progress, some already being 'platonically' dated. (FAO practice...First Among Others...you may be the First for a while but it will not last.)
End....bs excuse to bail, can't risk the deep, intimate, financial, legal...commitment. And you could be providing the Cirque Du Soleil of sex, but he has the attention span of a gnat, he's bored, time to move on.
Post End....continues to try to get sex, since she's taken off guard and vulnerable.
Post Post End....maintain platonic or fbuddy friendship (that is if she doesn't want to wait to see him in hell, knowing that of course, he's created and wallows in hell, address U305, Plainsboro NJ.)
Please note: Time frame for above can range from 2 weeks to 16 weeks.
THERE ARE NO EXCEPTIONS...PLAY AT YOUR OWN RISK...IF YOU'RE SMART YOU WILL READ THIS EVERY TIME YOU RECEIVE A COMMUNICATION FROM MICHAEL...aka
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Mikey
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The most memorable grievances of Michael Dimercurio The man who was not who he said he was. The lies, the abuse, and the betrayal.
The stories you will read will amaze even the most jaded reader. Sex addiction, kink, child abuse, police and court action, extreme narcissism, and pathological addiction. It is essential if you are dating this man to read this fully.
Chapter One
In reflection
2013
I was using strategies to break my denial about Michael and started compiling a list of the most compelling negative behaviors that he commited during our two years together. I had developed am addiction to a seriously abusive and destructive relationship from the very beginning. I accept full responsibility for that. The man is an expert at creating himself as a fictional character, and I was happy to buy the book.
It took me two years to wake up and begin to recognize the reality of what I had involved myself in so completely and when my eyes opened, they opened wide enough to see more than I ever wanted to about this man, and myself
This is not a bitter treatise on a failed relationship. It is a warning to anyone who may chose to involve themselves with Michael Dimercurio of Langhorne, PA
Sailor, author, engineer, sex addict , narcissist, and abuser of women.
Just reading his sexist demeaning blog about women should have warned me.
I have an amazing capacity for self deception though. And the relationship started off in such a magical way that I was always chasing that sense of incredible lustful engulfing infatuation and limerance. It was fleeting, and based on fantasy and gave way to the most painful interaction I've ever experienced with a man.
Below is a list of glaring complaints that I generated in moments of starting it it took no less than 2 minutes.
He had a secret relationship with his ex girlfriend Marcy, who was much like him, that He carried on and lied to me about for a year. While swearing undying love for me he would also tell her that he loved her and felt nothing for me.
She was an uncaring cold bitch who just didn't want him to be happy.
He kept in touch with women he had dated while with me having inappropriate sexual conversations with them and sharing inappropriate information with them while we were in relationship, and lied about it. When finally cornered He admitted to one such connection with a women who had stalked him sending him hundreds of texts and pictures. He admitted being "friends " with her, and to a recent intense conversation about anal sex
He allowed me to be excluded from his family and did not stick up for me when his daughters were jealous and said untrue things about me.
He lied about me to his friends and made me look crazy at every opportunity. His first story was posted on Facebook describing me as a stalker entering his bedroom at night. He neglected to mention that he had invited me over and told me the door was unlocked. He humiliated me in front of his friends
He wrote about our fights on FB he also shared my private information on FB and with his friends. I found dozens of emails to people describing our sex life in blatant detail. When we would fight He would post something humiliating on Facebook. Then apologize profusely and swear never to do it again
He broke up with me 3 times in the first year, largely at his ex girlfriends suggestion
He used "The Silent Treatment" all the time as a weapon. He would send me a break up text, then not communicate for days and days. Weeks sometimes
He never answered direct questions and NEVER took responsibility for his actions or their consequences it was always my fault.
He never integrated me into his life. He kept his family separated. Even when we were engaged.
He could be hostile and abusive in a moments notice calling me bitch, whore, cunt etc...
He would throw me out at 1 am in the morning if He didn't like something I said He frequently threw me out in the beginning, or tried to.
He has physically thrown me out of his home. Just picked me up and thrown me out of the door.
The same day he would break up with me he would get on Match and Craig's List, ok Cupid, and solicit dates or sex.
He insisted on threesomes. He said it was a relationship parameter.
He never respected my boundaries.
He asked me to have sex with other men constantly, so I could tell him the details. Begged me to do it.
Everything was more important than me. His job, his daughter had one level of importance that I never came close to achieving, even when engaged.
He made up lies about me to his ex wife and sister and friends all of the time , making me look bad and himself a victim or hero.
He had me arrested and had a PFA sworn out against me. I did write asshole on his car with white shoe polish. I felt He was harassing me and wouldn't stop and he refused to talk to me to discuss it. We were broken up at the time v
He would break up for a month or two weeks and go out on multiple dates with women including sexual contact. He got back with his ex, Marcy , and had sex with her one of those break ups and told me all about it. Later on. He emailed his friends telling them he was having sex with both of us.
He hurt me all of the time and never acknowledged it or apologized
He only paid attention to me when he wanted sex.
He was extremely irresponsible with money. He would run out of money all of the time and had no savings.
He never took me anywhere except on rare occasion but when dating spent thousands of dollars taking women out for dinner.
He never made time for just us. All our holidays were spent with his mom or son or sister.
He cancelled two vacations I had paid for leaving me stuck with the bill
He did not respect me or my boundaries,my privacy and frequently exposed very private information about me embellished with lies and exaggerations, publicly
He had me arrested and had a PFA sworn out against me. I did write asshole on his car with white shoe polish. I felt He was harassing me and wouldn't stop and he refused to talk to me to discuss it. We were broken up at the time v
He would break up for a month or two weeks and go out on multiple dates with women including sexual contact. He got back with his ex, Marcy , and had sex with her one of those break ups and told me all about it. Later on. He emailed his friends telling them he was having sex with both of us.
He hurt me all of the time and never acknowledged it or apologized
He only paid attention to me when he wanted sex.
He was extremely irresponsible with money. He would run out of money all of the time and had no savings.
He never took me anywhere except on rare occasion but when dating spent thousands of dollars taking women out for dinner.
He never made time for just us. All our holidays were spent with his mom or son or sister.
He cancelled two vacations I had paid for leaving me stuck with the bill
He did not respect me or my boundaries,my privacy and frequently exposed very private information about me embellished with lies and exaggerations, publicly
It was ok with him if I wanted to be a prostitute to earn extra money. It excited him.
It excited him to think of me having sex with other men.
He solicited gay sex with a pornographic ad, and answered ads, YES! advertising for sex with men.
He posts of himself with dildos in his ass and communicates with his sex friends while in a relationship! He posted pornographic, headless pictures alleging they were me.
THIS was 2011:Middle....in love, addicted, but afraid that she'll want deeper commitment, still wants the sex and emotional intimacy but sniffin for eventual replacement, commitment not in the cards. Later Middle....sex may or may not be winding down, though in order to keep the sex, commitment looms large...there are ALWAYS several new females in varying stages of progress, some already being 'platonically' dated. (FAO practice...First Among Others...you may be the First for a while but it will not last.) SWEARING he loved me!!!!
The man talks a great game but is simply not capable of love.
Why did I stay? I kept expanding my boundaries and forgiving each unforgivable act until my self esteem was shredded, and I had become totally isolated from friends and was totally alone. I stopped caring for myself little by little as I became more obsessed with this sense of not feeling loved, but believing the hype at the same time.
It happened slowly over the course of days and weeks and months. And we did break up for 5 months. I was very very ill, dying actually, when Michael came to see me. He left the next day, pissed at something I had said. I called him and begged him to help me get into a hospital, that I was afraid I would not last the day. He laughed, told me he was going out on a date, and hung up on me.
Weeks and months after we reconciled, he loved to tell friends and family how he had saved my life by getting me into and standing by me while in the hospital. I was appalled! He was a complete cold, coward!
Michael will NEVER be caught doing anything for anyone else. ALL of his energies are devoted toward his wants and desires. He is totally about himself. I think he might become physically ill if he tried to be of service!
Yes, you are approved. Well, conditionally approved, there's a face-to-face drink involved. You'd have to show up knowing it's only 50/50 that it would happen. You might not have chemistry for us. She might be in a mood. I might veto the deal if I think a guy will be violent or too rough. Or if he is lying about being bi and just wants to get to XXXXX Or if he seems emotionally needy and wants a relationship.
One guy wanted to know what kind of perfume and lingerie my then-girlfriend wanted. I was perplexed. Dude, it's about making her quivering asshole wide enough to drive a truck through, not wining and dining her. One guy met alone for NSA and wanted to take her to dinner, hold her hand and talk. She was incredulous and said, look, pal, let go of my hand, drop your pants and put your cock in my mouth. Then when he'd cum, he wants to spend the night? It isn't about a romantic bacon and egg breakfast with a rose on the table. It's about making her cum and cumming yourself and saying see ya next time, girl.
Important note. She must be a stockholder in Gilette because she wants a man's face and privates baby-smooth. You've seen those chicks on the razor blade commercials stroking the freshly shaved face of the guy? That's her. Show up in the fashionable 3 day stubble thing, she'll say nice to meet you, bye, no matter how quivery her asshole is that night. And if you're one of those insufferable men who insist on a goatee and mustache for your image, forget this now. Her first word to you will be "no."
But if you shave and you're a gentleman, you get what's going on in the attached photo.
As to what we like, loves anal with a big cock, so count on a lot of butt-fucking. She loves DP and spit roast so pick a hole. She's also mistress of the blowjob, so also count on being sucked for a long time. Like any girl, she loves it in the pussy. Fair warning, anal and vaginal require condoms. You're encouraged to cum whenever you want - and please don't hold back, that's creepy - so blow your load hard when you first feel it. You can get blown without a condom by either of us, but if you want to cum in a mouth, it has to be the guy's because - as kinky as she is - does not like cum. Finally, goal is to fill my ass with cock and she wants to direct the action and get the guy to climax in my ass. Final word is that sometimes the stress of a threesome makes me want to sit back and watch and the guy, so that should be okay, but that doesn't mean I'm not having fun.
There are a few rules. Cell phones are switched to silent mode when the clothes come off. No kissing. No hair pulling. No spitting. Limited spanking is okay, but no hitting. Condom use in pussy or ass. No cumming in her mouth or on her. Cum as soon as you can and we'll get you hard again for session 2. And when the sex is over, be a gentleman and get dressed and go without having to be asked. It's not a relationship, it's NSA.
Mike
----- Forwarded Message -----
From: Jeremy Lynn
To: xvjbh-3613728267@pers.craigslist.org
Sent: Tuesday, February 19, 2010 6:29 AM
Subject: Re: Reply to your ad for Looking for BiSexual Third - mw4m - 45 (Newtown)
So has any decision been made about you and your wife getting together with me? Let me know,thank you.
April 2, 2010 at 9:40 PM
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